Feeling Top [2021] | Life With A Slave

The "feeling top" sensation is most sustainable when the submissive’s wellbeing is prioritized within your commands. Service as Self-Care

: Assign daily chores that contribute to the household's efficiency. The goal is for the submissive to feel pride in their service, while you enjoy the mental "load-shedding" that comes with their competence. Leadership and Oversight life with a slave feeling top

Exploring the Psychology and Dynamics of Living with a "Slave Feeling" Top The "feeling top" sensation is most sustainable when

A , by contrast, is defined primarily by action rather than authority. A top is the person who does something—ties the rope, wields the flogger, gives the command. Tops are not necessarily dominants; a bottom can top from below, and a service top performs acts for the pleasure of a dominant bottom. In many contexts, “top” refers to the giver of sensation or the active partner in a scene, while “dominant” refers to the holder of authority. In many contexts, “top” refers to the giver

Protocol resumes. The slave makes dinner according to weekly meal plan set by the top. They eat together; the top may ask for a report on the slave’s day. After dinner, the top might order the slave to kneel while they talk, or have the slave read aloud for the top’s entertainment.